Juvenile Sexual Offender Services
Many (50%) of the adult sexual offenders I have worked with have had their first victims when they were adolescents (often while babysiting). None of them were help accountable and all eventually ended up in adult sex offender treatmet. How many of these men (who have an average of 9 victims by age 33) could have been helped if treatment was available is unknown. How many whoudl have had better lives? Hgow many would have stopped after the first victim if they were held acountable? How many less victims would their be?
Society has a great deal of trouble seeing juveniles as sexual offenders. Behavior gets written off to 'boys will be boys', or 'I did the same thing when I was their age and I turned out alright'.
As an online service providing information, consultation and communication to help juvenile sexual offenders, we need to be very clear that our goal is to: Stop Sexual Offending Now!
If you are a juvenile sexual offender who has stopped we want to help you stop stopped. If you haven't stopped, we want to help you stop. If you have stopped and are trying to figure our how to make amends and how to stop the multi generational cycle of sexual abuse, you have come to the right place.
About communicating anonymously. It's possible. If you need total anonymity you may send prepayment for your services in the form of money orders. You must indicate the screen name you will use so that I will know be able to know you have prepaid your visit to consult with me. I will not consult with an offender who does not desire to eventually turn himself in.
A Note To Parents: If your child is acting out sexualy with children more than three years younger than himself or herself (or if force is involved) the kindest thing you can do is seek professional help and get him or her into the legal system so that juvenile probation can hold him or her accountable for meaningfully participatins in treatment.
Disclaimer
The field of mental health assistance offered over the Internet is still in it's infancy. There are severe restrictions and limitations imposed by not being able to hear the sound of your voice or observe your body language, therefore this service is not "psychotherapy". There is no building of a relationship with in- office visits over months of time. Click here to initial your acceptance and understanding of this.
To offenders who have gotten as far as consulting this page I want to say - you are not alone. Many, many men have done things they are not proud of - including molesting children. The important thing is that you not make any more victims and that you repair the damage to the victims you already have. You are capable of both theses things, despite your concerns about your inability. Help is available here and now. You do not have to have another victim.
